Time
Yesterday, August 14, was the anniversary of my father's birth. I
didn't realize until my sister told me that he would have been 100 years old
this year. We all thought he would live to be 100, but, unfortunately, he
only made it to 83. Of course, my mother was much less fortunate, having
lost her battle with breast cancer at the age of 59.
Events like this always make me think of time and how it moves inexorably
forward whether we're happy or sad or good or bad. The lyrics of Steve
Miler's song Fly Like an Eagle usually pop into my head: "Time keeps on
slippin', slippin', slippin', into the future." Sometimes they're joined
by other sayings such as "Time and tide wait for no man." or "Time heals all
wounds." Of course, there's also "Time wounds all heels."
Instead of trying to wax philosophical about time I thought I would let some
famous people speak their minds on the subject. Here are some quotations
that Google dug up for me:
Andy Warhol: They say that time changes things, but you actually have
to change them yourself.
Annie Dillard: How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our
lives.
Benjamin Franklin: Dost thou love life? Then waste not time; for time
is the stuff that life is made of.
The Bible (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8):
For everything there is a season,
And a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate,
A time for war, and a time for peace.
Brian Tracy: There is never enough time to do everything, but there is
always enough time to do the most important thing.
C. S. Lewis: The future is something which everyone reaches at the
rate of sixty minutes an hour, whatever he does, whoever he is.
Captain Jean-Luc Picard: Time is a companion that goes with us on a
journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again.
What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived. (played by
Patrick Stewart, from the film "Star Trek: Generations")
Colette: Time spent with cats is never wasted.
Douglas Adams: Time is an illusion. Lunchtime doubly so.
Emily Dickinson: To live is so startling it leaves little time for
anything else.
Eudora Welty: Events in our lives happen in a sequence in time, but in
their significance to ourselves they find their own order the continuous thread
of revelation.
Henry David Thoreau: The finest workers in stone are not copper or
steel tools, but the gentle touches of air and water working at their leisure
with a liberal allowance of time.
Horace Mann: Lost, yesterday, somewhere between Sunrise and Sunset,
two golden hours, each set with sixty diamond minutes. No reward is offered, for
they are gone forever.
Jane Welsh Carlyle: Time is the only comforter for the loss of a
mother.
Jesse Jackson: Time is neutral and does not change things. With
courage and initiative, leaders change things.
Kenneth Patton: By labor we can find food and water, but all of our
labor will not find for us another hour.
Mark Twain: Time and tide wait for no man. A pompous and
self-satisfied proverb, and was true for a billion years; but in our day of
electric wires and water-ballast we turn it around: Man waits not for time nor
tide.
Mary Parrish: Love vanquishes time. To lovers, a moment can be
eternity, eternity can be the tick of a clock.
Paul Bowles: ... we get to think of life as an inexhaustible well. Yet
everything happens only a certain number of times, and a very small number,
really. How many more times will you remember a certain afternoon of your
childhood, some afternoon that's so deeply a part of your being that you can't
even conceive of your life without it? Perhaps four or five times more; perhaps
not even that. How many more times will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps
twenty. And yet it all seems limitless.
Ralph Waldo Emerson: The years teach much which the days never know.
Rumi: Come out of the circle of time And into the circle of love.
Salman Rushdie: Reality is a question of perspective; the further you
get from the past, the more concrete and plausible it seems -- but as you
approach the present, it inevitably seems incredible.
Seneca: Whatever begins, also ends.
Thomas Hardy: Time changes everything except something within us which
is always surprised by change.
Thomas Paine: Time makes more converts than reason.
Thomas Paine: If there must be trouble let it be in my day, that my
child may have peace.
W. Somerset Maugham: It's no good trying to keep up old friendships.
It's painful for both sides. The fact is, one grows out of people, and the only
thing is to face it.
Will Rogers: Half our life is spent trying to find something to do
with the time we have rushed through life trying to save.

Happy Birthday, Dad. I wish I'd been able to spend more
time with you.
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