Eichstätt (Page 3 of 5)
It was time to get ready for the church wedding.
Using a few German words and a lot of hand waving, I was able to ask one of the
nuns if there was an iron that we could use. She showed us the
laundry room in the basement and said we were welcome to use what they had
there. Kathy was able to convert our rather-wrinkled garments into
acceptably smooth wedding clothes.
We rode with Gerhard and Ursula Müller to the
church. The guests were gathered outside under some shady trees. The
priest came out and greeted everyone. After making some additional remarks
that I didn't understand, he and the wedding party led a
procession of guests into the church for the ceremony. Kathy and I went in
last so that the couple's family and friends could get the best seats. The
best part of the ceremony was the music performed by family and friends of the
bride. Simone's brother Andi, who teaches music at the Catholic University
in Eichstätt, assembled and arranged a beautiful
selection songs for the wedding.
Although I wish I'd been able to understand more than a few random words, I
suspect that the ceremony was similar to wedding ceremonies in the United
States. Even if the words weren't the same, the sentiments certainly were,
and the love and happiness showing in the smiles on the faces of the guests were
the same. I was very happy to be there despite the language barrier.
After the ceremony we rode with some of Simone's friends to the town of
Neuburg on the Danube where the reception was held at the
Arco
Schlösschen, a beautiful location on a hillside
overlooking the Danube River. The Castle Neuburg was visible across the
river. We sat at tables on the patio while the bride and groom welcomed
all of the guests. They then cut the cake and we lined up to get some.
In addition to the official wedding cake there were about ten other cakes from
which the hungry guests could choose. I suspect that some people tried
more than one of the cakes.
While
we ate Gerhard handed out copies of a magazine that he created illustrating the
lives of the bride and groom. The guests were supposed to try to answer
some questions about the newly weds. There was even a sudoku, which Kathy
successfully completed.
Guests were given small pieces of paper and asked to write down their best
wishes for the couple. Then we all went out to the parking lot and tied
our notes to helium balloons. After a simple 3..2..1 countdown we all
released our balloons and watched them rise into the blue sky over the Danube.
We went inside and found our places for dinner. We shared a table with a
young couple from St. Louis and another young couple with a man from Germany and
a woman was Poland. Since they spoke English very well we were all able to
converse very well during the meal. In fact, the menu at our table was
also in English. Simone had really done everything imaginable to make us
feel comfortable at her wedding. By the way, in case you're wondering, I
had the brook trout and Kathy had the steak. The food was excellent as was
the wine.
As the meal ended the DJ set up his sound system and the dancing started with
the traditional first dance by the newlyweds. Then the bride danced with
her father as the groom danced with his mother and soon the guests joined in.
During a break in the dancing the couple sat in chairs back to back and was
asked questions like "Who's the sweetest?" and "Who does most of the cooking?"
They used signs to answer "Sie" (she) or "Er" (he). The crowd enjoyed it
most when their answers disagreed.
At midnight the cakes were put out again along with fruit and cheeses so that
guests could have a snack before the reception ended. Kathy and I finished
with a midnight dance and then enjoyed a snack as we stood out on the patio and
gazed across the river where the Castle Neuburg glowed in the dark. It was
a great wedding and a great reception and we had a wonderful time.
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